Whether it’s bashing or championing the Duke porn star, sex addiction via adult films, or revenge porn, women have a complicated relationship with pornography. And it isn’t hard to see why– it wasn’t originally made for us, or by us, and yet we and our bodies were the product that it was selling.
Now that you’ve learned the best way to introduce your partner to your toy box, you’re going to need some new additions. Below, in no particular order, are our favorite products for couples, ranging from the pretty vanilla to the super kinky.
When the 50 Shades of Grey novels first started becoming popular, some of my friends who are in the BDSM scene (and have been for years) were excited that their particular brand of play was getting some national attention. But that joy quickly faded when they realized something– while housewives all over the country were getting their jollies off on these books, they weren’t portraying realistic, and, more importantly, healthy BDSM relationships.
Also, grey’s not really the right color.
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