Sex educators the world over have long had issues with the way schools present sex education to their students. While we get that it can be an uncomfortable topic to discuss, sex ed is a very important topic in schools. It can even save lives. Here’s our shortlist of the things we wish we’d learned back when we were in school.
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Sexiest Toy Kits and Gift Sets for Couples
Has your lover been spending more time on the couch, and less time on you? Feeling less lust and more lackluster between the sheets? Ready to knock it up a notch while knocking boots? Then perhaps it’s time to introduce one of our sexiest toy kits or gift sets for couples into your otherwise oh-so-predictable routine!
How To: Safe Temperature Play
Temperature play includes a wide variety of sexual acts– everything from blowing cool air on sensitive areas to playing with fire, literally. So, how do you know if you’re being safe? Here are some tips on the best ways to get off or get your partner off without causing lasting harm!
Begging for a Pegging
Ah, the joys of pegging. Whether you’re a newcomer to the world of prostate pleasure, or you’re old hat and want to get your partner in on the action, this guide should help you peg or get pegged safely and comfortably.

Adult Films For Women?
Whether it’s bashing or championing the Duke porn star, sex addiction via adult films, or revenge porn, women have a complicated relationship with pornography. And it isn’t hard to see why– it wasn’t originally made for us, or by us, and yet we and our bodies were the product that it was selling.
Male Masturbators: An Introduction
Since the beginning of time, men have been finding weird things to stick their penises in. Modern men are lucky– because we here at Spicy Gear have a whole line of toys just for them!
Dildos: An Introduction
Earlier, we covered the basics of vibrators. Today, let’s talk about politicians–oops, I meant, dildos!
The Dangers of Douching
When John Mayer wrote, “Your Body Is A Wonderland,” what I’m sure he meant to say was that your vagina is a wonderland… of bacteria. I mean, we’re so very concerned these days with antibacterial soaps and hand-sanitizers, we don’t realize that we’re covered in bacteria. Constantly. And the best place for that bacteria to live is somewhere that’s wet and warm– like the vagina.
What is My Adult Toy Made Of?
There’s a lot of talk in the industry lately about toxic toys. The problem is that the sex toy industry is currently completely unregulated. Because many places consider adult toys to be a novelty, they don’t use the same sort of medical ranking system befitting things you will be sticking into your body. They just kind of say, “Oh, whatever, this feels good!” and aren’t held to any legal ramifications for what they list as the actual ingredients.
Pick A Lube, Any Lube (Well, Not Any)
One of the problems many toy owners face is selecting the correct lube for their toys. If you’re new to the world of sex toys, the issue may not be apparent. But just like the Byrds said, to everything there is a season, and to every sex toy, there is a proper lube. After all, you need a little slip n’slide even when you’re just trying to cram it in there.

The blood of the Witch-King of Angmar does not make a good lube.





