How-To: Sensory Deprivation Play

Why deprive the senses during sexy times? Well, when one or more senses are unable to perform their designated function(s), the ones left active are greatly enhanced. This leaves the person experiencing sensory deprivation play attuned to new, exciting and unique sensations.


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Best Flavored Lubes

Wondering which flavored lubes are the best? Look no further, because this highly palatable personal lubricant buying guide has the low down on which lubes deliver vine-fresh flavor and are the tastiest treats for your tongue.

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Reduction Methods for Yeast-Prone People

Guys, fungus just ain’t any fun for anyone. And yes, yeast is highly contagious (even if you have a penis).


But, it is possible for yeast-prone people to use lubecondoms and sex toys without increasing the likelihood of an unpleasant invasion of yeast? Absolutely! And this yeast information and reduction guide makes it all the easier. Continue reading

Lube Review: WET Silk

Without a high-quality, hybrid lube on hand, do you dry up like a plum under a heat lamp during hot dates? Don’t reluctantly morph into a prude just ‘cause you’re a little pruney in places.


Follow my lead and hella-hydrate with the newest and most luxurious hybrid lube on the market, WET Silk!

WET Silk may be a mutt (meaning it is a meld of water-based and silicone-based lubes) but just like a mixed-breed pup from the pound, it’s got a lot of long-lasting love to offer. Is this amalgam of ingredients compatible with latex and non-latex safer sex barriers like condoms and oral dams? You bet cha. Is this frosted, friction-reducing formula usable with silicone sex toys? Absolutely!

Visually, WET Silk luxury lubricant resembles natural vaginal discharge, grool, seminal fluids or even congealed sausage gravy. You may be familiar with a similar looking lube called Liquid Silk which is no longer available for sale or purchase in the USA. Bad Dragon Cum Lube also bears a strong resemblance. Whatever it reminds you of, I assure you it’s a blast to put these pearly drops on her buttermilk biscuits!


It’s ultra-thick, creamy, white, opaque and takes a considerable amount of oomph to squeeze out. Think back to smacking the bottom of a bottle of deep conditioner or intensive hair masque which has been stored upside down for weeks. And, sure enough, this strange, milky goop locks in moisture like it’s Jergens for your vajayjay.

Although prior application wasn’t a cinch, removal afterwards was a breeze compared to more water-resistant lube formulas (both from my skin and from my sex toys). A few spritzes of Pjur MedClean and we were instantly as fresh, soft and silky as a daisy’s petals.


This satiny sex lube feels buttery and savory, not sticky or tacky. It lasted as you’d expect, longer than traditional water-based lubes like WET Original but not as long as pure silicone lubes, like WET Platinum.

After the action subsides, alcohol makes the water evaporate while leaving the skin-conditioning silicone emollients behind. It then turns to a what the WET brand describes as a, “powdery finish,” which is pretty darn pleasant, I must say.

Ingredients: Water, Dimethicone, PEG-6, Isopropyl Palmitate, Propylene Glycol, Glyceryl Stearate SE, Caprylhydroxamic Acid, Glyceryl Caprylate, Methylpropanediol, Hydroxyethyl Cellulose, Cetearyl Alcohol, Sorbitan Stearate, Polysorbate 80

Advertised as a glycerin-free formula, this is misleading in a sense. Why? Technically, there are seven other sugar-filled culprits lurking amongst these otherwise vagina, anus, barrier and sex toy-friendly personal lubricant. These yeast feeders are: cellulose, glycol, methylpropanediol, glyceryl (2 types), sorbate and sorbitan.

Whew. Thank goodness WET threw in some warriors in the crusade against candida to help us out. Caprylhydroxamic acid is an amino acid derived from coconut oil and it’s widely used as a strong and natural anti-fungal. As is isopropyl palmitate, a palm oil derivative which has anti-static properties to boot.


Overall Rating: 4 Stars

Final Verdict:

WET Silk personal lubricant is a multipurpose, hybrid lube made for safer sex and masturbation with sex toys. Despite the seven added sugars, it made my skin feel phenomenally supple and sensual. Nonetheless, the final verdict is still out on any unpleasant development of post-fornication fungus.

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Kink Safely With RACK

RACK, or risk-aware consensual kink, is a system of steps which were collectively created by the kink community so everyone involved can more safely explore and experiment with fetishism, dark erotic fantasies or BDSM acts outside of whatever may be considered their normal routine.


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Five Most Common Misconceptions about Bisexuality

As a child of the early eighties, I’ve been fortunate to see a huge improvement in equal rights for members of the LGBT as well as a large drop in the ignorance surrounding human sexuality. Frankly, I couldn’t be more proud of our collective advancements as a society. While this is amazing, I can’t help but wonder why bisexuality is still so misunderstood?


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