Know Thyself: Vaginal Topography

Don’t know the difference between a vagina and a vulva? When you get down there for a little bit of fun with your vibrator, does it all just seem like a giant mess of whosits and whatsits? Here’s a quick guide on the layout of the vagina, including its most important bits and how to keep them happy in the bedroom, whether you’re exploring alone or with a partner.

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You, and Me, and Hitachi

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A coworker of mine (thankfully, long before I started working for Spicy Gear), once said, “Any girl who has a vibrator and isn’t single is disrespecting her man.”

“WOAH,” I said, “that’s so not true. What about girls in long-distance relationships?”

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Positive Vibrator Use: Don’t Make This Weird

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Once when I was in college, my roommate had a friend over who was something of a busybody. As this girl walked past my bookshelf to use the bathroom, she opened up a box I had on my shelf completely unprompted and slammed it shut immediately with a horrified look on her face.

“If you wanted to see my vibrator,” I said, “you could’ve just asked.” Let’s be honest: I was more annoyed that she’d thought it was okay to peek through my stuff when I didn’t even know her than I was ashamed of what I’d known she’d seen.

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