How To: The Dance of the Double Dong

The Darth Maul of Dildos. The Double Ender for your double ends. No matter who you are or who you’re in a relationship with, the double-ended dildo can be used by anyone who enjoys penetration in the anus or the vaginal canal. And don’t think that double the dildo means double the cost. A few have even made our list of Toys Under $20!

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Alone

Some forms of the double D (like our Double Ender) can be used alone for double penetration. These dildos have to be very flexible, and so some materials don’t work well for this purpose. The FeelDoe, for example, would not work for this purpose, although it is an amazing toy to share with a partner.

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Many double-ended dildos come with different sized heads at either end (like the Art Deco AC/DC Double Dong, pictured above), so it is like getting two dildos in one. If you don’t know if you want a larger or a smaller dildo, a double-sided dildo is a great way to try out both experiences.

But the toy can also be used for single penetration, too. For those of us who also enjoy the image of a penis being stroked, stroking the outie end of a double dildo while pleasuring yourself with the toy in the vaginal canal or the anus can be a huge turn on. So even if you aren’t ready to take the DP plunge, you can still enjoy either end of the double-sided dildo.

With a Partner

Whether you’re begging for a pegging or going pussy-to-pussy, double-sided dongs are one of the most satisfying toy you can use with a partner. But they can also be one of the more difficult toys to get the swing of.

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The problem tends to be in getting the positioning and rhythm right. This can be a bit of a challenge, especially if the dildo is not rigid, like the nJoy Pure Wand (pictured below).

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If you’re struggling to get into the right rhythm with your partner and the double-sided dildo, the answer could be a harness. Use a normal strap-on harness (like the one in our Crotchless Panties with 7″ Strap-On Dildo), but thread one end of the dildo all the way through and into the orifice of your choosing. This should help you hold the toy in place for more acrobatic love-making.

You can also use a double-sided dildo for oral. One partner rides it while the other uses their mouth. This may also take some exact positioning, as well as some suppression of the gag reflex.

Lube It Up

No matter how you’re using this toy, make sure you have lots of toy-safe lube on hand.  If the toy is 100% silicone, glass, or steel, a silicone lube like ID Millennium is a great idea. If not, we recommend and aloe-based lube, like Blossom Organics. This won’t hurt your toy (or any condoms you might be sticking on that toy) and it feels comfortable and cooling on the butt.

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Also, if you are using your double-ended dildo in a butt, make sure to keep it clean. Some toys can be porous and hold on to bacteria that shouldn’t be shared between couples. Using a condom will prevent your anal toy from becoming a real bummer.

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